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Dear Dude

Q: I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year. Since we started dating, we have talked about him going to strip clubs. It makes me very uncomfortable. He has said he would respect that and not go to one. I know he loves to go, I feel like after a year I should trust him enough and be comfortable enough for him to go. Why do guys need to go to the "titty bar" when they have girlfriends? What actually happens there (because in my mind it's the worst thing imaginable)? Is it wrong for me to not want him to go?

A: The strip club thing. I’ve never gotten it. I like naked women. And even naked strangers. But I’ve never felt comfortable at strip clubs because of a mix of “that’s someone’s daughter” and “she was probably molested as a child” and “she doesn’t really want to be doing this” and...

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